You know you like your target and attraction is going well. Find out your logistics. Is she taken?
Are you in a social circle? If you're in a social circle, you'll have to be careful. If you piss off someone else you may get the girl but lose the group. Worse, if you fuck up with the girl, you lose the group. Make sure you bounce around a bit with the 'group' until they're comfortable with you. At same time just work attraction game.
If it's a a venue where you don't know anyone, don't worry so much... you can blow out without much risk.
In the social circle group, talk to her and keep your eye scanning the areas you're in as you guys move together. If you're near somewhere cool, say you want to show her something, and she should come with you. If she wants to bring a friend, abandon plan and say she can't see it. Let her try to get it out of you.. just talk about other stuff and then mention something else cool you wanna show her and
go again. (Note: This is the same for D2's. If she wants to bring a friend, flake. Then just text her more and try to build up more attraction, then suggest another D2... If she wants a friend no matter what, you prob should dump her. Or get them both out, game the friend instead and get your target jealous... until you isolate somewhere and makeout with her. Then invite her out for a D2 one on one, and this time tell her no friends. Work that day2 into a reality quickly.)
Tell her you'll bring her back in a sec, and take her to the isolation point. Show the 'nice' view or whatever, and k-close. Then hold her hand and tell her she's totally your type, turning you on. Then tell her that's all she gets.. you don't want to get into any 'trouble' tonight. Scan the area for more cool locations. Walk around a bit more, then k-close again; makeout if possible. Move. Rinse and repeat. The more you do, the more aggressive you are, but you also need to push her away and resist her... like she's the one seducing you and you've gotta be careful around her. As you're just doing the comfort routine, talk to her about logistics.. is she staying around for night, is she going home with friends (this way you can judge how much she wants it).
If you can't SNL, get her number, buy some ice cream or drink, whatever. Bring her back to her friends. Make a Day 2 plan, invite her out. Let everyone see you're holding hands when you come back.. so they know you guys have something going on... Be friendly to the friends too..
If you can pull, go back to the friends, tell the friends you and she are kinda into each other and are going to be at the place for a little longer, but you'll bring her over in a bit. Make sure they're cool too.. that's why you need to befriend them as well.
Try for her house first. Start off by asking her what's near her place; the area she's from. Go there in your car or by train (whatever). Continue being lovey dovey (love bubble). But hold off from escalating too hard or you'll lose her. Mention you are the master of making something delicious (ice cream sundae, chocolate covered strawberries, whatever). Go grocery shopping and suggest watching something for a bit at her place. You'll leave after that. More than likely she'll be okay with it, because you're not going to stay too long and girls like food. Sometimes she'll even bandwagon and say she'll make something awesome too.. so if that happens you are really good. Go over to her house, start cooking, make the stuff, then pop in the movie. If you're on the couch, go for the kiss, then makeout, then begin to escalate. Stop first, then eat some more and go again.. if you can take it to her room, go there. Finish.
If her house logistics suck, or you can't get in, after you pull from friends, drive or walk to a nice area that's private with food nearby. Mention checking out something real quick, get it on, close, then get food.
Be cool, and talk about her seductive powers on you, make it funny but also talk about where you're going in life. Suggest a Day2 on the way back, drop her off and figure it out through text.
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